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What is Real Size in the City?

RealSize is how I describe women that society has labeled plus size, overweight, fat, voluptuous, full figured, plump, curvy… the list goes on and on.  One study shows that over 50% of the women in the US wear a size 14 or above - as if we didn't already know! Size 14 should be average, but it’s considered plus-sized.  I figure that if the majority of women in the US are over a size 14, it isn’t plus – it’s Real.  Truth be told, plus size begins at a size - get ready for this - 10.  Yup, in the fashion world 10/12 is considered plus, just at the smaller end of the stick (no pun intended).

I hope that this will be the place all RealSize women will want to flock to (I hope, fingers crossed!  LOL!).  Here you will find all sorts of fun things to do… no more woe-is-me crap!  We’ll talk about great places to go and experience brave new adventures.  Who says that just because we’re fat we can’t bring “Sexy Back” (had to put that in there, love that Justin Timberlake - and it rhymed!  OK, I digress...).  That’s right ladies, get out of those sweat pants and that oversized tee!  This web site is going to take your life by storm.  Gone are the days of watching everyone else enjoy their life in your city. You’re fat, so freaking what.  It is no excuse.  This web site that I have given birth to - with lots of love and help from many of you - is for us.  That’s right I said us – I’m fat too, baby! 


RealSize in the City is like no other plus size web site you have ever been to.  I wanted to create a site that I would love to check out myself.  In looking for plus size web sites what I found was all about lose weight, dating, sex…yada, yada, yada.  Don’t get me wrong, those aren’t bad things (and you will even find some of that here!), I just wanted a site where I could find out all sorts of fun stuff: Great places to eat (cause you know we love to eat!), great shopping (how to stay healthy, not necessarily lose weight!),  dating tips, travel-talk (because I live to travel!),  and other fun things to do.  Ever wanted to go to the opera, do tea with the girls, check out a pilates or burlesque class, go wine tasting, travel to Europe? Many of us want to do those things but don’t.  Well, today is the first day of the rest of your life.

Listen ladies, your life should be full and fun no matter your size! You should enjoy each and every day that God has given to you, because the fact is, once that day is gone you can never get it back. For some reason I have been given the gift of motivation!  I love my, what I like to call RealSize Ladies!  I have been RealSize all of my life, and let me tell ya, I have not let my life pass me by!  As of this moment, I vow that you won’t either!  I am always out and about “dating my city”!  You, too, can date your city - alone or with your girlfriends.  It is soo much fun - I dare you to try it!!!!!

As a former Fashion Stylist for a nation wide plus size retailer, I was really able to speak to RealSize women from all over the world.  I’ve learned a lot about what they are doing, what they want to do, how they feel about themselves and their lives etc, etc, etc. However the best thing for me was hearing the excitement in a woman’s voice as I helped her pick out a fabulous ensemble for that big blind date, or school dance, or special night out with her husband.  There is nothing like a confident and sexy Real Size woman!  Did ya hear me?  NOTHING LIKE IT!  I started this site because I figured that if clothes can do that, there has to be more. This confident and sexy woman is inside of each and every one of us.  The bottom line is that this site, my baby that I have been working on for over 2 years, is “About Us, By Us, For Us!!!!”  We RealSize women have to live our lives today... not tomorrow, not after we lose that extra 15 pounds (or in my case, 60 pounds) that we have been losing “starting next Monday” for the past couple of years!  This site is going to offer all of the fun and excitement that a RealSize woman can handle: health tips, fashion and beauty ideas, book reviews, tips for dating and sex, and my most personal favorite – TRAVEL.  Always wanted to go to Europe?  Pack your bags because we are on our way to tackle the world!  We’ll also have plenty of mixers: Nights out at the theater, wine tasting, horse back riding, burlesque and pilates classes and much, much, much, more! 

Most importantly, with your help, this will be the greatest plus size web site ever.  Our goal is to help you love you for the beautiful woman that you are today and enjoy this wonderful life that you have been given!  Whether you have always been fat, just got fat, are losing the fat - whatever! - today is the first day of the rest of your life, and you are not going to let another day pass you by!  There is strength in numbers, and I tell you that we fat girls out number the not so fat!  It is not my job to tell you to lose weight, it is my job to help you love the fabulous you that you are. You have to!  So sit back, relax, cruise, and take in the RealSize experience.  Don’t forget to let me and my friends know what you think and how you feel.  After all, it is all about us (that includes my fat ass too!).  Just think of us as your RealSize girlfriends - we’re hanging out, having a good time.
Real Women with Real Curves are RealSize in the City!

Thank you for visiting and we look forward to having a blast together!

Your Favorite Real Size Girl,
Shelitha
“Live La Dolce Vita.”


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"Dolce Vita"
You will get to know a lot about my baby "Dolce Vita" which means "sweet life" in Italian and he truly is the sweet life to me. He is a 1 1/2yr old Pekingese...
In the mean time Dolce wanted you to know about some of his favorites so that your poochie can be stylish at all times..After all we are Fabulous so why should'nt our Poochies be?
Check out some of our favorite places below and remember to "Live La Dolce Vita"

Need a pet Hotel?...
"D" Pet Hotels"
www.dpethotels.com

Not just stores but Pet Boutiques...
Some of Dolce's favorites:
"Pussy and Pooch"
www.pussyandpooch.com

D.O.G
www.dogpetboutique.com

Latest Poochie Couture and Designer Gear ie:
Ed Hardy
Juicy Couture
Pet Strollers and more

Posh Puppy Boutique
www.poshpuppyboutique.com

Great Word Tees
Ruff Ruff & Meow's
www.ruffruffandmeow.com




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Mission Statement:

"RealSize in the City" is the Modern Guide to Plus-Size Living!

We are an on-line plus size community that focuses on celebrating the woman that You Are and giving you the tools and Inspiration to become your best YOU! We provide fun, sexy and informative tips on everything from living a Healthier lifestyle, Dating, Fashion & Style, Travel, the 2 “W’s” - Where to go and What to do in the city, Modeling and much more.
“RealSize” in the City’s focus is to make sure that “RealSize” women everywhere live life to the FULLEST - no pun intended.
We also have Fabulous mixers that are for “RealSize” in the City women and their friends, such as wine tasting experiences, picnics, girl’s night out and more...

Think of us like Oprah, Ellen and Sex and the City all mixed together. Informative, Crazy and Funny, Sophisticated, Chic & Sexy! The New Plus Size or what we call “RealSize” woman of today!

Living Healthy, Fashion, Dating, Travel, Modeling, Where to go, What to do for fun and more...All dedicated to Plus Size Women!


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Real Women with Real Curves are RealSize in the City!

We are so excited that you’ve decided to stop by for a visit. So you’ve been called a Fat Girl, Curvy Chick, Plus-Size Diva, and the list goes on and on no matter what you want to call us, we want to “Welcome” you all! Come in, kick off your shoes and enjoy all that RealSize in the city has to offer. Kinda like where Sex and the City meets Oprah, meets Ellen. Sexy, Informative and funny. Focusing on today's Sassy, Sexy and Full of Energy RealSize Chick. Great tips on Health, Fashion, Dating, Travel and Hip fun things to do.  What more could you ask for? Well this is just the beginning, there is much more to come. We are Big Girls here to make Big Things Happen and we hope you decide to join us on this journey.

Thank you for stopping by and showing your support!
Shelitha and the RealSize Family...